Living with your child.
Not without. Never without.
You are a mother. Even without your child at home.
After a miscarriage. After a stillbirth.
You don't have to let go to live again.`
Maybe you recognise this.
You are a mother.
Even if the world has moved on.
They say: move forward. But you don't want to move forward without your child.
You laugh sometimes. And feel guilty straight after. You cry. And feel like a burden.
You've been carrying this for a long time. Often alone.
Often in silence. That's exactly where I was.
After Jasmijn. After Tom. After Tim.
Living with your child. Not without.
About Desirée
I know what you carry.
I lost three children. Jasmijn, Tom, and Tim.
Not as a therapist. Not as a researcher. As their mother.
That is why I know: you don't have to let go to live again. Your child can be with you every day. As love. As strength. As quiet presence.
That is what I help you find.
A moment with your child.
A free audio. Just for you. Five minutes. Your voice. Your child. Quiet presence. No sign-up. No obligation. Just listen.
Start wherever you are.
A book. A community. A podcast. All created from lived experience.
Book: Stillborn
My story. Raw, real, and full of love. Available as e-book and audiobook in my own voice.
Stillborn Sisterhood
A community of mothers who carry the same love. Together, without having to explain yourself.
Podcast Babyloss
Conversations about baby loss, transformation, and life after. For the moments when you don't want to be alone.
What other mothers say.
Real words. From real mothers.
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